Just for the record because you mentioned it I think you are at least 2 years probably longer away from being able to be in a healthy relationship. I’m not sure I have ever seen anyone with a more unhealthy attachment to another human being. I’m afraid it is going to take some intense therapy for you to break this attachment. This woman cares zero about you and preys on your weakness. I can understand her wanted to break away from your guys toxic relationship, but to mess with you in the process is just mean and sadistic. You have to forget about recon Steve and save yourself.