Originally Posted by LH19
Steve right now she has zero doubt. That can change if you change. If you don't; she may comeback but it would only be temporary.



Absolutely right again LH. That is what has always occurred. It reminds me of something CW says, quoting his Green Beret friend.

"The strongest negotiating position is to be able to walk away and never look back" That's what Im trying my best to do. Its been a couple weeks since I have made zero effort to fix this. And I know that her saying "I am not sure anymore" about her choice last night was a test to see if Ill jump right back into wanting to get her back. I did not, didn't even respond to it. If she never feels the loss, she has zero reason to change. Im the one feeling the loss and that's why I am doing things different. That's why im here, because I don't want to live this way anymore


Last edited by Steve_; 11/14/20 05:00 PM.
T:11
M:10
K: D5, S7
BD: 9/1/20
WW continues to break up and recon with OM.
I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021
Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21.
Glad my D was not busted.