well, when we were married, we did go to a priest who counseled us for one session--he had no clue about married life. I want to give this c a chance, seeing a though we never gave the other two a chance. ex has his meeting next wed. so we will see. but this past sunday, i called up wx and asked him to take down my bike and d's that we were going for a bike ride, (he keeps the bikes for me in his garage) and he asked where we were riding hen said great come on over, nexst thing I know we are all heading for the bike trail. we all went biking together, then he asked me if I like chicken duh, of course he knows I like chicken and I said yes and asked me to stay for supper and we all made dinner then after dinner, I helped clean up and he was having trouble with this computer, I helped him then d had to take a shower so then I left to go back to my apt--weird, my head is so messed up right now. then yesterday, ex was late coming home told d and me that he had to visit the tenant because of a bee situation. and d gave him a look and I told her that Kristen(tenant) is highly allergic. we started talking, then out of the blue ex tells me how much rachael acts like our d now rachael is the tenants daughter. I was upset when he started talking about her daughter but I didn't let it show--why is he doing this???