#18 - Still working 2 years into Ring & Piecing

[BL42]

LH19,

BL,

I’ll chime in here and give you my opinion based on research and personal experience. When a woman feels safe, heard and understood her legs open. When she doesn’t her legs close. It’s that simple but men typically fuch it up because they are terrible listeners, horrible at understanding woman and are not congruent with their word which causes the woman to feel unsafe and the legs close. You master those three things to where it becomes natural to you and not an act (fake it until you make it), and you will have all the sex you want. Ain’t a more hornier person alive then a middle age woman lol. She’s just painfully waiting for a man who has it figured out.

That makes sense and certainly gives me areas to work on but how would you explain the phenomenon Steve85, I, and many men describe whereas we had great sex lives while dating which then quickly falls off shortly after getting married? Is it the men all of a sudden doing something wrong/differently after the wedding, or are the woman just performing in a way to get a man to marry them and then turning it off / reverting to what they ultimately wanted?

Also...in the case of my W (and I assume others) I know for a fact it's not an issue with them and AP/OMs. She's ramped up considerably. Is that just the initial temporary state while the excitement is there or while she tries to reel in another man and ultimately will revert back and cause issues down the road, or was there something inherently wrong with me they're doing better I need to address personally?