I’ll chime in here and give you my opinion based on research and personal experience. When a woman feels safe, heard and understood her legs open. When she doesn’t her legs close. It’s that simple but men typically fuch it up because they are terrible listeners, horrible at understanding woman and are not congruent with their word which causes the woman to feel unsafe and the legs close. You master those three things to where it becomes natural to you and not an act (fake it until you make it), and you will have all the sex you want. Ain’t a more hornier person alive then a middle age woman lol. She’s just painfully waiting for a man who has it figured out.