well, I'm trying to be positive. last two counselors didn't work out (saw 2 when married) so I do want to give this one a chance, but I told her on the phone how we have been d for 3 three years and would like to work on rebuilding and when we got there one of my peeves was his feeling for his tenanet (used to be ours) how he is over there alot and has asked her out and that I thought is was not a good idea and would not be good for our d and dating your landlord to me just doesn't seem right and okay a little jealous here too. she asked me what I thought of her and actually she is very pretty and has two wonderful girls and my ex would actually be a good match for her. well, she starts in about how just becasue we get along so well, she said that maybe just becasue we still love eachother doesn't mean we should get back together, that two people just don't work together well when it comes to the marriage union and starts giving the ex dating tips and on how to go about dating the tenant!!! that she should move to another apt. and then she won't be his tenant anymore! I was so angry and hurt. When we got out in the parking lot I couldn't hold it in anymore and I started to cry. he said he was sorry but that he loved me as a person and mother but was unsure about the wife part then starts telling me that if we get re-married he would like a small family cermony with a justice of the peace--he is really consufing me. so needless to say, that next session is just with the counselor and him. so we will have to see what happens.
