I'm sure it was very hard to hear...but can I slant it a different way? h said he "wasn't sure" -- he's being honest and open (positives!), he hasn't shut the door in his mind (positive!), etc. If you can stand to work within the ambiguity and DB, DB, DB, well, I think you'll see more positives.
Is your C solution oriented and pro-marriage?
What's your background/marriage story? How are you doing getting goals together, etc?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.