Truthfully this board is about saving yourself and in turn gives you the best shot at saving your marriage. Most of the marriages here are not saved and shouldn’t be saved. We have someone on here whose spouse left them fives times for another person. I am trying to help him save himself and not his marriage.
I like what you posted earlier. I was happy to see you getting it early on. It usually takes a LBS a really long time to understand they deserve better. Most come here shattered and their self worth really low and it takes a lot of time and work to rebuild again. We all have flaws and you are owning yours and your seeing your H for who he really is and that’s a good thing. Be proud of yourself for trying to grow. Most people don’t because it’s hard.
