It appears that the dynamic remains in place where he is quick to criticize and act exasperated by my mistakes, but unable to acknowledge when he messes up. Nonetheless, I am continuing with the ADHD counseling and focusing on improving myself.
Crazy how we marry our opposites!
I may tend to sympathize with your H, simply b/c I have a family member who has the worst attention deficient I've ever seen. Living under the same roof, could drive a person insane. Unlike you, this person does nothing to improve or help the problem. It has caused so much anxiety for the rest of the family. I hope your H will appreciate your efforts to improve. At least, you are trying!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
