(((PLC))). I can’t imagine living in limbo for as long as you have. I did it for four and a half years but the difference is that I didn’t know that is what I was doing. Had I known what my H was actually up to during that time, I don’t think I could have lasted. Anyway...knowing or not knowing, it is very, very hard to live with a ghost. I hope you and D have a great Thanksgiving...with or without your H. (((HUGS)))