Sorry you are here. Already getting good advice!
Find out if you are a “nice guy”. Glover has been on a few podcasts so listen to one or two to get an idea.
I believe there is one about sex so start with that. If you are you have to read it!
Originally Posted by BenB
Let's not forget Intimacy & Desire, Dr.David Schnarch. Read it asap!

This!

Are you still in IC?

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021