Sounds like you are doing really well NZ.
The kids are really the ones these sitches should be about. You sound like a good father!
I wouldn’t have said “ be good for mummy”. Mommy loves u is better.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021