I am sorry S19 has had a close contact with Covid. It does ramp up one’s anxiety. Glad to hear he’s had a negative test result so far.
Originally Posted by Taz
S19 did not fill W in on the situation and said he did not want to. Should I?
Nope.
S19 is an adult and can decide who he wishes to tell what. Especially in matters of health.
Adult children are adults. They have a right to their privacy. We have been granted privileges to visit them. That is the model and ideals I utilize with my kids. My kids do not extend XW/Mom the same privileges that I enjoy.
Perhaps W’s proposed settlement will be acceptable. Her guilt might work in your favour. It doesn’t hurt to review the proposal. If seemingly ok to you, get a lawyer to review, and then finalize. If the proposal falls short, you can counter offer back (use a L).
Stifflers Mom. Yes, the world of MLC can lead to some strange places. My XW did some flirting with high school boys as well, all while she is living with OM. My kids’ didn’t like that much.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
