One of S19’s roommates tested positive so he is under quarantine for two weeks. He opted to come home for virtual learning as he didn’t want to be cooped up in a dorm room for two weeks. So far he has no symptoms and one negative test result. He will most likely be home till mid January as the university is closing campus on 11/24 anyway.
S19 did not fill W in on the situation and said he did not want to. Should I?
I have been assembling paperwork to support W’s D. I have talked to a few attorneys but have not hired one yet. The paperwork W’s attorney sent said they wanted to settle by agreement. Plan on waiting to see what this agreement proposal looks like before retaining representation. Maybe her guilt will work in my favor.
Still no OM but I have heard some interesting rumors. W has a crush on a former classmate of S19. She sees him at the HS football games as he has younger brothers on the team. She seeks him out to have chats with him after the games. Her friends tease her and refer to her as “Stifflers Mom” in reference to the movie “American Pie”. I find this very odd but in the wold of MLC all is fair game.
Taz
IMO S19 is a young adult. And besides that, his test came back negative and he has no symptoms. That being said, I suppose you would want to know if the situation were reversed. I would have a talk with S19 and gently try to persuade him to tell his mother. If he feels strongly against telling her, then I guess I would respect his wishes.
As for your W's amorous endevours, it is best to distance yourself. I know it must be friggin hard to distance yourself from it, but it is her monkey and her circus, as well it is her roller coseter ride and you do not want any part of it. So get off the roller coaster and do prepare yourself financially. Start working out what would be acceptable to you, do some math and to it properly. Do not count on her being "fair", because she will not be. It is ith the WAS code that your definition and her definition of fairness differ greatly. She most likely feels that she has been suffering for decades when she was with you (rewriting history) and that she is entiteled to compensation. Key word being - entitelment.
