The kids & I had a great Halloween. I had a pizza party at my house for two couples and their children in the afternoon and then we all went around the neighborhood trick-or-treating. It's great seeing my son so excited for the festivities and interact with the other kids.

I'm flexing my work schedule so even on my "off" weeks I see my son every day for an hour before school and two hours afterwards, plus both kids every Friday while W is at work. It's tiring to juggle it all, but well worth it.

Trying to make the most of my free time this weekend. Friday night a buddy came over for a beer. I went out to a nice dinner with ten other friends last night, and am off to golf this afternoon with three buddies. I'm also working projects around the house to stay busy. I have a list on my phone which I add items to whenever something comes up and enjoy checking them off. Yesterday I moved all the kids' toys from the living room back into their playroom/bedrooms, then replaced the rug and ottoman and bought a stone electric fireplace - love the results. I had the girlfriends of my buddies weighing in on the decor and plans for the master bedroom.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21