You have allowed yourself to become his personal secretary.
Right??? I mean seriously... YOU wanted to leave, to separate everything, to be responsible for yourself and in control of your money... SO WHY BE CALLIN' me??? LOL
I am NOT going down that rabbit hole. Once it dawned on me this was NOT a true business item... silence it was.
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Do you think that makes him view you as high value or low value?
I cannot mind read. I have no idea what he thinks of me and it ultimately doesn't matter. He again brings up making an appt for the puppy. Does he truly have no clue that he has already had this text exchange with me TWICE previously? I did not reply. The last 2 times I replied with times that I know would work for his schedule and got crickets. He should still know my work phone number but if not its easily google-able!
The weird part. He is clearly still involved with OW and her life and kids and possibly living with him??? That part I'm not clear about. He made a comment the other day which made it sound like he lived alone. Again, no idea and I'm the stalking type to find out. Soooo... back to my observation. I'm an hour away. Why would she be cool with him bringing the dog to me? You'd think she'd want him to have as little contact as possible???
^^^ Again, not spinning but just an observation that I gave myself 20min to ponder... and then shoulder shrugged.
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GAL sounds pretty strong.
I was up early - gutters cleaned, 10 bags of leaves (sadly not much of any dent in the foliage issue), showered, laundry, sorting out some personal items... knit for a bit before heading to photography class. Guy I'm meeting for drinks. I'm intrigued... he's got my attention. Its our third time getting together. I think I might actually like him. I've got another date lined up tomorrow. I'm really starting to have fun... I totally get I'm using dating as a band aid but again I'm very honest where I'm at. If a guy seem like he might be taking it in the wrong direction I let him know I'm no hook up girl... no harm no foul if thats what he wants but I work hard on being clear and up front.
