KC, even in all of these well-meaning posts, I still see you spending too much time justifying your answers in terms of what it may or may not mean to H.
Where are YOU in all of this?
Who cares if you are a little passive aggressive in what you would hypothetically text to H? You are not going to text him anyway, right? Your personal growth is not going to be achieved by nitpicking at every single thing you did wrong in the M, nor what H did wrong or right in the M. That is an exercise in futility. That is you trying to pretzel yourself into a person who fits a M that no longer exists. That M is over, never to return.
You get to reinvent yourself now. You can be anyone you want! Who is the best person for KC to be for herself?
