Added that even tho we are sure to D I still think about reconciling in the far distant future. So have your hope, but DB as if there is none.
This is exactly what I need to do as well. I reached the point last night where I don't think there is hope anymore. Its kind of good in some ways to have it gone.
Steve,
I go back and forth, like a pendulum. One day I'm certain it's over, the other I'm hoping for future reconciliation.
One thing I do know is my WW was (past tense) a good person with good morals. She is now a selfish monster and a full blown WW.
She has made terrible choices, said outrageous things, tells me I'm only right from a "legal perspective" when I tell her she has committed adultery. I have all the evidence and she is conducting an adulterous affair from our home in front of my kids.
Because this behavior would have been so completely alien to her just two years ago I have to assume that at some point in the future, she will "come to her senses." She may never come back to me, but the horrors of what she has done will come back to her and she will have to learn to live with her guilt.
She insists she has to do this and is on a new path and she cries over our children.
