I echo Sage's thought. If you do not feel responsible, then great. If you do, please work on letting it go.
I think I posted a while ago that H was on his phone screaming so loud at someone, I could hear with the door closed. I did not feel anything for his anger AND when he was done being on the phone, he never acknowledged what it was about-that's fine. It was not me. I knew that and did not care.
