Did anybody else's husband start playing "Mr. Super Dad" upon separation? Like DH couldn't do anything with the kids at all and suddenly I'm bombarded with texts etc reminding me about kids things. Of course I'm doing all of the kids stuff. I've always done all of the kids stuff. What's up with the reminders and check ins? I'm trying really hard not to let it infuriate me
From my observations, most women are the coordinators of the kids activities (Traditional and efficient) until the bomb drop. Then responsibilities are shifted around. Dad is just showing you he is fully capable of doing what you have been doing. Just appreciate he is being responsible. Others are not so lucky.
HUGS
PS: Do not let your frustration get focused on him. Express and release it elsewhere. The one who has an emotion reaction loses.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
