An update....I've applied to refinance the house and buy WW out. She told me she wouldn't leave the house till she got her money. Now she's saying she wants to leave the house next month even before the buyout,
We are currently going through mediation. She is a full blown WW. She charged almost $1,000 to her credit card to get a pull out sofa for OM living room so my girls have somewhere to sleep. She bought a complete living room SET not just a pull out sofa. She wanted her buyout money to fix up OM basement so my girls could have a bedroom since a refinance takes time so she went ahead and did this.
She tells me things and forgets them and then changes the story over and over again. She is losing her mind and it's terrible, to see someone self destruct and at the expense of our kids.
It feels like something else is at the steering wheel because she is going against all her norms.
I am in shock and disbelief at the things that come out her mouth.