See it for what it is

[MrBrside]

LH,

I agree I see alot of sitchs that follow a similar trend and it makes some sort of sense.

Can I pick your brain as to what you think happened in my sitch?

You ansewered your own question yesteday.

You are too Nice and it is obvious she has zero respect for you - coupled with the fact that WW is damaged goods.
You are still lookikng for reasons why, probably becuase you are thinking how to fix it.
It is also obvious ( to us here ) and to your WW that you havent dropped the rope.

Its great that you are working on you, but i think its for the wrong reasons.. You are still looking as to why it went wrong, with a view of how to fix it. You cant fix her. Why would you want to.. I've said it soooo many times.. No ties apart from a a wedding document - move on and love life.

This response had me in tears.. Litterally and i'm so glad LH still posts

Listen you unfaithful lying cheating biotch. Don’t ever text me again.

She would be in your bed tonight.

Do you have the cahonies?

This should have been your response! - but if she had come running, you would have folded..

Think "self respect" - You know she is with OM, or you dont want to discuss with her - either way, it equates to still with other man - You don't want to file - From a 3rd party looking in - do you really think it equates to respect. What do your parents think ? Do you think they respect you for being a cheaters plan B ?

I'll be frank - I would never get back with my WW, for a varierty of reasons - the main one is self respect and respect from others.. People would lose respect for me - Mum, Dad, Sister, Friends, People at work -

Respect and self respect, or the warm tingly feeling of getting a "i miss you" text from WW, but knowing you were a great Plan B - You decide.