Rustymom, I became a more active Dad after divorce. I suddenly only was responsible for my kids 67% of the time and wanted to make the most of it! After divorcing my ex-wife, I took a leave of absence to spend more time with them to help them cope. I began volunteering at school and sports to have more time as well.
Originally Posted by Rustymom
Of course I'm doing all of the kids stuff. I've always done all of the kids stuff. What's up with the reminders and check ins? I'm trying really hard not to let it infuriate me
I would set boundaries around unsolicited advice. My ex-wife has occasionally felt strongly about certain things. I rarely pulled out the "I have primary custody" card, but I also didn't respond to every gripe. Do consider many LBS/WAS would love to have an ex who is positively engaging with their children. I've been encouraging when my ex assumes more responsibility (as opposed to suggesting what I should do). I mean, I love it when I'm not the only parent making my kids do homework, shower, or eat vegetables.
