I couldn't agree with you more and it all goes back to doing what works. It seems to me being pleasant, focusing on my own growth, and occasionally dropping off a homecooked meal really, really work. I totally agree that any more family time invitations should come from him. I actually think the fact that he was so hesitant suggests he is not actively trying to friend zone me, but really wrestling with some bigger stuff. I'm not sure what that stuff is. Begging, pleading, being desperate and frequent texting really don't work. At all. And he is like a scared cat....a scared cat that seemingly likes to be brought the occasional plate of pot roast only to hurry back into the house and devour it. lol
