Yeah unfortunately that’s why the reconciliation rate is so low early on. Like I always talk about you’ve seen 100 movies where Zach Efron keeps proving his love and gets the girl in the end. It doesn’t work that way in real life. Only when the LBS moves on does the WW becomes interested. People want to be with people they have to work for not ones who jump through hoops for them. I wish I could help you more but you’re kinda stuck right now.