I think the scariest thing is that I know in my heart that if I stop trying to be so "nice" and I just drop the ball, he will probably just let the divorce proceed. I'm scared of letting go, because I'm pretty sure all hope is lost. Like, yes, he has ratcheted up communication, etc. BUT there's a big difference between increasing his texting and actually wanting to work on the marriage. I feel like I'm grasping at straws
DBing is about letting go. Pressure and pursuit DO NOT WORK. Go back and read Cadet's welcome message and all of the links. If you have read all of that and still think that the way to move forward is to pressure and pursue him and nice him back then I am not sure you grasped the information in those links.
I know you are hung up on the fact that you walked away. However, you tried to walk back and he went the other way. THe roles are now reversed and you need to DB yourself. GAL. 180s. Detach. Let him go to get him back.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
