That’s why honestly I don’t have hope for you. I do believe in a midlife transition for women who based on hormones and brain chemicals and basically sacrificing their needs for years for their husbands and children feel take for granted lose love and respect for their husbands.
Your W fits none of these categories and is just selfish. I’m sorry but that’s how I feel.
I think it has to be one of two things and I’m gonna speak frank with you.
You were either to much of a pu$$y (NGS) or she’s just a really bad person.
How was you sex life?
The good news is if it was option 1 you can turn it around by standing up to her. If it’s option 2 it will not likely change until she hits rock bottom. More then likely until that happens she will be like Steve’s W and keep leaving and coming back.
Sex life was great up until the two weeks before BD.
She was pulling away entirely. Which is obvious now she was getting that fufilled elsewhere.
Before that? it was good.
Maybe I was too much of a pu$$y but I dont think so. I did stand up to her in regards to things I believed. I was good to her but I wouldn't say I was a doormat for her or anything like that.
Women are more attracted to men who stand up for themselves and what they believe in versus guys who are people pleasers and too nice to the point that they let women and others walk all over them. Women can never love men they do not respect. If a woman jerks you around, disrespects you, tries to put you in friend zone, uses you and you let her get away with it without setting and enforcing healthy boundaries, she will never love you and never feel anything for you other than feelings of platonic friendship. Men who love, value and respect themselves never put up with rude and disrespectful women who take them for granted or who try to friend zone them. They simply give them the gift of missing them, permanently. If a woman pushes you away, it’s her who must earn another chance with you, not the other way around.
I had a conversation with a friend about this. How odd the dynamic is. That I’m waiting for her to decide when in reality she messed up and should be asking for another chance.
It’s my own fault I know. I chose to stand.
R2C,
You’ve got some great posts out there. Thanks for stopping in.
I would say for both of us. Unless she is really good at faking things and is an elaborate liar about her feelings in regards to our sex life.
