You are letting your emotions control your actions. Use logic.

Originally Posted by tom_h
"I'd like to know when I can come by this weekend to get some clothing"
H:"Sunday between 3-5 works for me"

Quote
"I understand you bought a new knife set, can I have the old one."
This is a yes or no answer.

If you did buy a new knife and you didn't want the old one:
H:"yes"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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