These are all really good points. Yes, I think something about me leaving after he spent months in therapy really was a final straw for him. I can see clearly why now. For me, the no third child was a really, really hard pill to swallow at the end of my 30s. But, you know what, it was absolutely the right decision. I was just so blinded by grief that I couldn't see it at the time. There is definitely a lesson to be learned in letting my emotions run the show. I definitely have more work to do in terms of being more centered and making rational, non-reactive decisions that can't be taken back.
Your kind words mean a lot! And, you're right begging and pleading and crowding doesn't work. Actually, I haven't texted all day, and he just sent me a text about how the kids love the food I made. So letting him initiate is definitely the correct move. Discipline, restraint and a level head appear to win the day. Thanks again for the advice and encouragement.
