Truth. It’s sometimes hard not seeing your kids 50% of the time, even 10yrs in, even when they’re a teen and only *sometimes* want you near, lol. The trade-off is you learn to be more present when you do have time. How often in a 2-parent household are both parents busy? It’s rarer when switching custody. Last night for my 4-hour Halloween possession I had new decorations, a scary (pg-13) movie, dinner, and a candy cookie project ready to go! And then this morning it’s me time and now that I’m caffeinated I’m off on a full-day training hike to up my physical endurance.
PS - Volunteering at your kids’ school and sports gives you extra time, even during COVID.
