Incidentally, this friend/L's sister did the same thing to her husband and 2 young kids in the past year that W is doing to me and our young kids. Was having an A with a co-worker, husband standing by for her, but her refusing to stop....said she'd keep doing it until the end of the school year because they'd be working together. Unreal. Her family (divorced parents, my friend/L...etc.) are completely horrified of her behavior and on the side of the father (who isn't their blood) and staged an intervention to explain how they regret their own divorce and she should return to her family. Sounds like they tried to mend things for a bit during COVID but husband got tired of the sitch and they've since separated. Friend/L said she's heartbroken over sister's actions, but that they reminded her exactly of what I described with my W (and vice versa) in that it almost seemed like she was addicted to a drug. I told her, yeah...dopamine.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21