New here-heartbroken and confused

[Steve_]

I hear you about the groveling and so on. I fight doing that on a hourly basis. I have to tell myself that talking her back or nicing her back won’t work she is officially a wayward wife. You have gone from the WAW to the LBS now. And that feeling is normal for us to feel. But I can assure you as much as I tried to nice her back and talk her back it didn’t work. The only times she ever showed me any emotion is when I have began to distance. I mess it up a lot a breadcrumb falls and I jump back in. Don’t be like me.