Yes. He desperately tried to save the marriage for about 6 months before I walked out. Then, when I left, it was like a switch flipped and he was just over it. I know people think I changed my mind because he detached, but the truth is that distance just enabled me to see that our problems were workable. When I came back and asked to try again, he said no. I've asked him like 4-5 times and the answer is always no.