Well, first of all, she lives out of the country, so he is currently not seeing her daily. I think if he was to get her pregnant regardless of MLC and dealing with that, I’d be dealing with a child. I don’t want to. That’s his problem. If he’s stupid enough to be even more reckless than just sleeping with OW to bring a child into this world, well I’m done. Period.

Detachment would be done. I absolutely refuse to deal with that. Even if he realized his error, and wanted to work on our R I wouldn’t. I would truly be standing for me.