I’d say most people DONT match up with the first person they date after divorce, unless they’re very lucky or very needy. Since you find it harder to find someone you’re attracted to, you can expect to have to sift through a lot of dates.
That being said - try not to have too rigid an idea of what you’re looking for. Kindness is more important in a partner than a lot of the more superficial things we might think we want.
