You know, I was a little bit surprised by my own feelings about jumping back in. (Or maybe lack of feelings) I don't know what I expected exactly but there wasn't much feeling involved. I remember a time when the thought of meeting someone new was an exciting prospect. Now, no so much. Maybe it's just because I'm older and there aren't many surprises left?
kml, it's somewhat reassuring that most people won't be a match but I can't help but wonder why so many people ARE matched and usually with the first person they date after their divorce. I get that we're all different and my experience is somewhat unusual - most people don't wait 20 years to date again.
I don't get attracted very easily which will make this quest even more challenging but I do have a defined idea of the type of man I'd be interested in. Honestly, I'll be surprised if he even exists! Fortunately, there in no exigency,
