Originally Posted by Pack_19
I know my biggest mistake was to not walk away minute 1, I will work on that so it never happens again.
Best not to argue, or share you POV. Other options: "Sorry you feel that way"..."It must be hard to feel that way"....Validate.


Setting some boundaries will help as well.


When you ....
I feel....
If you continue....
I will.....


You do not even have to tell her your boundary. You just need to go through the exercise to have a good firm idea in your head on how to respond.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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