DH and I dated for two years, married for 7 separated for 1.5 now. We have two beautiful children. Ages 4 and 6. ....We will probably be divorced in a couple months. Looking for any and all advice.
Even if divorce papers are signed, people reconcile. With children, you will have many opportunities to interact. With every interaction, you have the opportunity to draw him closer, or push him farther away. You are in control of how you interact with him and behave when around him. Be attractive. Be seductive. Know the difference. DB your butt off.
Most use "how the other person responds" as a measuring stick. I always suggest using your behavior as the measuring stick. Did I validate? Did I refrain from arguing? Did I make it safe to talk to me? Did I end the conversation first?
What is the current parenting arrangements? Is it 50/50?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
