Pack, the recording thing isn't a bad idea. I would start rolling video on your phone every time you interact with her. As your lawyer says, she could cry domestic violence at any moment. mbr started recording all interactions with his WW and it saved him a lot of headaches down the road.
Any suggestions on HOW to record interactions? Is it literally just holding your smart phone up while video record or is there another recommended, more subtle way?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21