Yes you're correct. One issue I have had (which I think a lot of WAWs have) is that I've made impetuous, reactive decisions based on extreme hurt. I don't say this to excuse my behavoir, but when you are deeply, deeply hurt it is very hard to become centered and just stay the course. I have a plan- be kind, withdraw, give him space and work on myself. I need to just stick with it. Honestly, whether we reunite or not isn't even a consideration anymore because it's entirely out of my hands. I'm not going to date anyone and work on myself regardless of the outcome.
