BL, one last thing. The detachment thread, linked below, was daily reading for me! I read it several times a day most days in the thick of my sitch.

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2538414#Post2538414

Again, working on this and getting better at it has an amazing effect on you as the LBS. And sometimes it can have a profound effect on your sitch. It certainly did in mine.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018