Yeah you're right. Honestly, it makes me so angry. I actually am a high value woman. And while I probably shouldn't have walked out, I took A LOT in that marriage. More than I think most women would. It wasn't like I cheated and ran off. I've read other threads about guys wishing their WAW would come back begging, but I have done that repeatedly starting very early in the separation. At some point, you have to move on. And I think I'm beyond that point. I think I'll use my time on this board and in divorce busters coaching focusing on improving myself and putting DH behind me. The truth is, everyone in the marriage made mistakes. I need to put my resentment at his family behind me for my own wellbeing. And just let him go.
