Yeah I think that this is tough because you left and now you want back and he is not wanting to recon. I have heard some coaches say that you are the one to blame when you walk away but once you make it clear that you want to recon they sort of become the dumper now. It could for sure be more Complicated and maybe he wants to see more effort from you because you walked away or maybe he is just done. I am defiantly not an expert at all I’m pretty messy right now but I’m trying. I think the best you can do is have a high value of yourself and keep offering that take it or leave it attitude. You have been demonstrating a geniune concern for him and if he continues to choose not to see it I think it’s on him now. Defiantly being too available is bad. But I do commend you for trying like you have. Don’t let this break you like I have. It’s hard to pick yourself up of the floor by yourself once you get down there lol.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
