Did anyone else have a really difficult time decreasing contact. Prior to DB, I used to text DH the occasional funny message etc. Now I only text in case of emergencies etc. He KNOWS how incredibly sorry I am, he knows I'm working my tail off to change, etc. He just doesn't care. So the ball is entirely in his court and me initiating is pointless. How did others stop apologizing, stop groveling, stop making contact? It's so hard when you feel like you messed up.
