My H traveled so much, I really feel it helped me in the beginning.
Of course at the first BD, within a week he was gone for three months for work, where I know he met up with OW #1. During that time, D was home for a week or so. Otherwise, I was on my own. It helped me become stronger.
My H does not reach out for anything really. I would like if he did. Maybe someday. What he does do is buy food as described above. I make sure he knows I appreciate. In some way I know he needs to be acknowledged. And he should be.
As I mentioned, I have found forgiveness. This has made me feel peace.
