Quick question: I kind of qualify as the WAS in this situation I think. He was going to marriage therapy alone and I asked for the separation and filed for divorce-decisions I later regret. In this case, do the rules re: low contact, detachment etc still apply? I've noticed that pleading etc really does not work. But should I try and be nice and accommodating since I was the WAW. It's almost like DH and I have flipped places. He was desperate to save the marriage up until I walked out. Once I walked out and had some time to process things, I became open to saving the marriage, but he remains resolute on his decision to end it.
