Pack, a few posts ago Sandi wrote

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You are always talking about fighting for your M. Stop fighting for the M. Stop recommitting everyday to your M, b/c it sends your brain mixed messages.


And once again you write below

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I am ready to give up but my values and moral ask me to be patient and fight for my M



Is it not a good idea for you to be the best man you can be for your own sake and not to fight for your M?


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019