It’s funny isn’t it. The good things get us wondering too.
Make pasta. Enjoy the smells and tastes of fresh garlic bread smothered in butter, accenting a nice pasta dish.
Definitely let him know when it’s super time. Might even suggest he eats at the table with you. Something along the lines of, as he is picking up his plate - “oh, I was hoping you’d join me. The bread smells so good.” Methinks he is looking for a warm welcome. Although he may not realize it yet. (Remember no pressure - he’s a timid squirrel)
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.