My advice is always the same. Give her more time and space. Continue to be NC. But have a drop dead date.
This. Also, next time she wants to "talk", tell her to talk but don't go to dinner to do it. You probably have something better to do with your time than her "I want MC while I have an affair" shpiel. I mean that seriously, anything you do would be better than that.
Take advantage of this time and GAL like crazy. I regret not doing more during my separation.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
