Affairs are typically acts of anger and resentment. Do you think it’s rational to think because the A/P turned out to be a D-bag things would just go back to being great in your marriage? The affair ending and the spouse being home are the two biggest red herrings in DB. She just thinks she was with the wrong OM. Get her out of the house and let her process her feelings. Maybe she misses you and maybe she doesn’t. The thing is you can’t force it. Are you worth it? Then bet on yourself.
W I think you should move out to get some space and process your feelings. I need some space too and think about what I want moving forward.
Fear always prevents this from happening. She’ll just run to om/ow. When the truth is she’ll do it no matter what the situation if she so chooses.
